You are whole all by yourself

  And you, you scare people because you are whole all by yourself – Lauren Alex Hooper I’m going to add to the quote above: So don’t shrink. For you were designed to stand tall. Don’t run, because you were designed to stride confidently. Don’t deny your past, because it all conspired to make you YOU. Don’t bow your head to the critics, because the best of them, ain’t better than you and the worst of them cannot be compared with you. Don’t dim your light because others around you refuse to rise to the great light within them. Don’t deny your royalty in exchange for a cheap crown. Celebrate you. All of you. For you are whole all by yourself and you recognize that you don’t need anyone or anything external to complete you. For you are enough. You are sufficient and you are whole, all by yourself and in… View Post

The Style Symposium

Hey ladies. It’s been a while, hasn’t it. Today I wanted to feature an upcoming event ‘The Style Symposium‘. The Style Symposium’ is an event that focuses on loving your bodies and being confident about it. It’s also all about Fashion, Beauty and Confidence. Terriann Charles – the maven before the Tailored by Terrieann brand decided to create such an event to bring women from all walks of life to empower, motivate and influence them in these areas which is becoming highly demanding. The Style Symposium is highlighted the most for the empowerment sessions which strongly focuses on fashion, beauty, tips and tricks on shopping on a budget and confidence in our life, body, in our style, the way we dress and being able to love our selves despite our hidden flaws as women. The Style Symposium will feature panel discussion with three lovely ladies Mrs Lexan Fletcher, TV Host of Chit… View Post

Managing pressures and stresses of life

The phone is constantly engaged. The internet keeps going down, your appointment got cancelled and you only found out when you got there. Oh, and your bus is late. Why do minor hassles like these have the potential to make us uptight? Maybe it’s because we’re tightly wound already and can’t find the pressure relief valve. Balancing the pressures of home life and work life are vital so that we get optimum amounts of the adrenaline buzz to stay healthy and enjoy the whole life! So here are a few thing to try when the going gets tough: Work out what is actually inside or outside your control. And don’t tell yourself “I cannot deal with this” when you mean “I will not deal with this”. Stop driving yourself with inner messages that say “I must please” or “I must hurry up” or “I must be perfect” or “I must be strong”.… View Post

Reminders to myself

My Inner Being speaks to me often. I enjoy the dialogue always. In my recent quiet time I was reminded of a few things. Things that I need to remember, carry with me, things that bear witness to my soul, my heart, my being. Dearest Carlana, there are a few things I need to remind you. You already know this. But at times you need to remember -: You are creative. You have the ability to create the life and dreams you carry. Even the hidden ones, the ones you tuck away in the deepest recesses of your heart; the ones you’re afraid to dream and dare not acknowledge. My darling, you can create anything you put your mind and hand to, not just because you’re blessed, but because within you is a creative gene, one planted by the Creator at the time of your creation. All it needs is… View Post

Why We Write – Owning the many pieces of our collective story

I have so much to write, but I have no idea where to start. Honestly, I kind of don’t even feel like it. Everything gets jumbled up — the words, the messages, the topics, the wisdom — until it all feels like mashed potatoes in my head before the words even make their way to paper. Where do you start when you have a million unwritten stories inside of you? The beginning makes me scowl, because really, where the hell is that? When you’ve spent so much time marinating in personal growth, not knowing up from down, so much time seeing things primarily in hindsight, it’s hard to know what came first, or second, or tenth. I want to tell you about my divorce and all of the beauty and grace I discovered as I trudged my way through. I want to tell you about how I fell in love with… View Post